Three communication mistakes that happen right before a breakup
Very often, good relationships and love relationships can end due to poor communication, and three mistakes in the way you talk to your partner can contribute to this.
As he writes "Yor Tango" there are three tragic mistakes in communication, which, if not noticed in time, can cause the end of a love relationship.
You stop telling the truth
Sometimes it's hard to tell the truth. We avoid it because we are afraid of the response we might get or we are afraid of being judged. When you avoid confrontation and honesty, resentment will build up that will make you unhappy and alienate you from your partner.
When you hide the truth, it's like having a "secret" you're keeping that can help create a sense of distance and separation between you.
You stop being nice
This is a slippery slope for those going through the "honeymoon phase". It is rightly said that "knowledge breeds contempt", meaning that we hurt those closest to us because they are there. It's easy to forget that your partner, whom you now know so well, is very vulnerable and sensitive to your reactions.
You stop listening with an open mind
We all want to be right, and many good relationships break up because someone wants to be right before being happy. An open mind requires you to stop judging your partner and stop characterizing everything they do as wrong. How often have you changed your mind because someone told you you were wrong? Such persuasion never works.