This is the worst thing a mother can do to her daughter - claims psychologist Labkovski

The popular Russian psychologist, Mikhail Labkovski, has 40 years of work on family psychology behind him. On this occasion, he told about the upbringing of daughters and mothers who suffer.

"Statistically, women are the most common victims in families. I do not like the idea that women are by nature passive and self-sacrificing. "In fact, there are social roots, norms, but also parental sentences that can literally destroy a girl, who later has to be a woman."

"You are a girl, girls do not argue"
"Keep your face, be silent, be patient a little"
"A woman must be able to endure" - and other nonsense.

Unfortunately, many mothers still raise their daughters this way. But it also happens that the mother tells her daughter "Be strong", "You must have your position and an indestructible attitude" or "Nothing limits you", while the mother lives life as a typical victim.

Normal, The worst thing a mother can do for her child is to sit down and say "look what your father did to me!" after arguing with the father.

That must never happen! Your child does not have to be your therapist!

Otherwise, let me refer to the popular phase "I only suffer because of my children" - Dear woman, the more you tolerate and tolerate, the stronger you form a victim in your child!

If you want to do something important for your child - leave the tyrant! It would be better for the children to live in a rented apartment, in the countryside or to feel a little poor, than to watch every day how their father abuses the meadow or how the parents often argue.

"A friend of mine loves to say: 'Everything has not been decided yet! "You can always start living differently."

The problem is in the head, not the husband, the boss, the economic situation or anything else! And only you can take the first step!

Mihail Labkovski

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