Nurse Reveals: Five Things People Who Are Deadly Complaining About

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Overwhelmed by everyday trifles, it is often difficult for us to distinguish the important from the unimportant, so we easily lose sight of what we really want out of life. Is a peaceful family life or a successful career hurt? Nurture old friendships or dedicate ourselves to people who can help us be more successful and earn more?

The fast-paced way of life, the many responsibilities and the inevitable situations often force us not to follow the style of "carpe diem", but at the expense of the important things in life we ​​run after the trivial and transient things.

How much laughter do we need and is it at all appropriate to be carefree and smiling in the serious times we think we live in? Answers vary depending on the stage of life, mood, health…, but there are times when most people start thinking similarly or even the same. The final bills are declining towards the end of life, and what thoughts swarm and what we regret at the moment, the former nurse described on her blog and in the book "Five Top Things We Regret Most Before Death" (The Top Five Regrets of the Dying) Broni Ware from Australia.

In his work, Wer writes about the incredible clarity that appears in the human mind shortly before death, as well as the great wisdom from which we could learn much.

She states: "If I asked them what they were complaining about and what they would have done differently, the topics would have reopened."

After which people mourn the deathbed:

1. I am sorry that I did not live a life consistent with myself and not with the people around me

Broni Wer states that this was one of the most common things people complained about.

"It is only when people realize that their lives are coming to an end that they look back and realize how many of their dreams have remained unfulfilled," Wer wrote.

Interestingly, more than half of the people Wer cared for said that not even half of their dreams came true in their lifetime. The fact is that health brings freedom that many do not have, and it is sad that they realize it only when they lose it.

2. I wish I had not worked so hard

"I have heard this statement from almost every one of my male patients," Wer said, adding that "not only did they miss their children's childhood, but they did not really enjoy their relationship with their partner."

Wer noticed that few women he cared for complained about this reason, but the question is whether today's generations of women will think similarly when the end is near.

3. I wish I had the courage to express my feelings

The author states in her blog that many people suppressed their feelings so as not to get into conflicts with other people. With this behavior, they were content with average relationships with other people and never, in fact, fully opened up to anyone.

As a result, over time, many of them have developed various physical ailments due to bitterness and anger.

4. I wish I could dedicate myself more to my friends

In the words of Broni Wear, people often realize the true value of a friend even before the end of their life. Many of the people Wer spoke to explained that during their lifetime they were simply too busy with their responsibilities and sometimes left their friends behind.

The moment they became aware of what they were complaining about, it happened that it was already too late to fix a relationship or relationship.

5. I wish I could afford to be happy more often

Wer states that she used to be surprised by this statement, but after people started saying it so often, she realized that some simply realized too late in life that happiness is a matter of choice.

"The fear of change made them content with mediocre things, and sometimes they even knew for themselves that this was the maximum they deserved," the author states, concluding that they all had only one common desire, and that is at least a little more honest through life to laugh.

Reading all these stories, one question arises: does it really take a lifetime to understand its true value ?. For many things it's too late, you can really fix them today.

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