For a long time it was believed that a man should be the initiator of sex, while a woman's destiny is to sit modestly and wait. Fortunately, these times are far behind us and women today are not afraid to take the initiative.

If you still have doubts or are afraid to take the first step, we bring you a list of reasons why sometimes you should start the sex game yourself and take the initiative. "Superwoman."

"melt the ice"

You met recently, and he still doesn't understand how to hint that he wants to have sex with you. If this is obvious to you and you want to make love with him, then take the initiative and "melt the ice". Here, now and your way. In extreme cases, he will be frightened by your assertiveness and run away – well, that's wonderful too. What will you need, so indecisive?

Or if you had a fight with your husband, and then somehow reconciled, but the former warmth is somehow not enough. A great way to resolve all misunderstandings is to make love.

Visually show your desires (and possibilities)

Sometimes, if you do not show the man "with your finger" where, how and with what intensity he should caress, touch, bite or do anything else, then he may never find out about it. Therefore, one day you will have to take the initiative and organize a demonstration performance. You'll definitely like it (it won't be awkward and embarrassing), so there's a good chance you'll practice this more often.

Try something new

When you want to try a new chocolate, you go to the store and buy it. And if you want to try something new in sex, what do you do? Be brave and organize as you wish. Buy a noa toy or nice underwear, try new tricks and try anything you like.

Increase your confidence

Overcome your fears of stretch marks on your stomach and thighs, excess weight, pimples on your cheeks and more, which often make you forget about your own attractiveness. Sex is wonderful and great. And it makes you love yourself – and your body.

Improve your mood

This is the last item on the list, but the argument is always the first and perhaps the most important. If you want to have sex with a man right now, what other reasons and arguments might be needed? Get rid of prejudices and allow yourself to improve your mood.