Are you among them? Three sentences uttered by the happiest couples
A quality relationship is not a gift that falls from the sky. Experts agree that every meaningful relationship in life must be worked on, and individuals who are willing to invest time and effort into their relationship with their partner are rewarded many times over. writes "Diary".
Honest communication is the best tip for building a quality relationship. That's why couples who use these sentences are considered extremely happy and successful.
"How can I help you?"
Imagine this scenario – you come back from work after a long shift, you are tired, hungry and stressed. You want to relax and want to share your problems with your partner.
But the moment you start complaining about your horrible boss, rude co-worker, or unreasonable customers, your partner starts giving you unwanted advice: "Why are you still working there?", "You should quit your job!", "I told you it wasn't a good idea" etc.
Don't assume, but ask your partner how you can help. In most cases the answer will be: "Nothing, it is enough for me that you listen to me without judging me."
The sentence "How can I help you?" has a wonderful impact on a relationship and will definitely strengthen it. But keep in mind that it must be said with sincerity and love, not with a dose of arrogance.
"What do you mean by that?"
If you've been in a relationship or marriage with someone for a long time, you probably feel like you can read their mind. But that is not true. In everyday life, we often project our own values and insecurities, which can lead to major misunderstandings.
In her book Taking the War Out of Words, the author Sharon Strand Ellison explains how to formulate questions without sounding offensive that reveal what the other person is really feeling and thinking.
If you are unsure of the meaning of something your partner is saying, ask, “What do you mean by that?” Take a breath and ask the question in a calm tone. Using aggressive tones will have the opposite effect of the desired one.
"Thank you"
Don't let your busy everyday life get in the way of your happiness.
Don't forget to thank your partner. It is such a small but such an important gesture that will make the other party feel appreciated and loved.
